I help guide individuals through the maze of grief so that they can find hope and discover a different life after loss. I’m here to help you move through, not get over your loss.  After you lose someone you love you ask questions, like ‘Will I make it,’  ‘How do I make it?” Like going to physical therapy, I’m here to encourage, offer hope and tools to get you back on your feet again.

After the sudden death of my husband in 2018, I fell into a dark hole that I wasn’t sure I could find my way out. I came out of the hole and discovered a different life than the one I had. The grief, pain and sorrow did not swallow me up. Where I began was not where I stayed.

As a therapist for over 25 years, I’d been the person in the chair, not the couch. Going to therapy was one of the tools I used to plod through the pain.  Finding others who had suffered loss offered support. I am uniquely qualified to offer hope and help to others on their journey. 

Pam Luschei
Marriage & Family Therapist in La Mesa, CA